Single, Dating, Engaged, Married - Ben Stuart

Single, Dating, Engaged, Married

By Ben Stuart

  • Release Date: 2017-09-12
  • Genre: Christianity
Score: 5
5
From 22 Ratings

Description

Navigating the Four Critical Seasons of Relationship

The vast majority of young people will still pass through the key phases of singleness, dating, engagement and marriage in their twenties. Yet they are delaying marriage longer than any generation in human history. Why?

For the first time in history, the average age for an American woman having her first child, 26, is younger than the average age of her first marriage, 27. More children than ever are growing up in fatherless homes, despite the overwhelming evidence that in every measurable way this is bad for the child. The Center for Disease Control also recently reported a dramatic rise in sexually transmitted disease nationwide. In Rhode Island alone, since the onset of online dating, reported cases of Syphilis has risen 79%, and HIV has increased by 33%. Though many young people can avoid early pregnancy and STDs, most cannot dodge the depression and feelings of isolation that characterize this modern generation. Studies show a dramatic rise in self-reported loneliness among the young. All of our technological connectivity has not made us feel more connected. In many ways, the very screens that are meant to link us to others have become shields blocking us from the deep intimacy we crave. Many have discovered that where there is a lack of intimacy,addiction often rises to take its place. How can a young person navigate such troubled waters? Is there hope out there?

Like a sailor on turbulent seas, we need to look up and see the North Star: the fixed points in the sky whereby we might navigate the objective realities in life. We need the skill-set to know how to journey through life and how to select the right people to journey alongside. In this book we will chart a course through the four relational phases that the vast majority of human beings on the planet will pass through in their twenties: singleness, dating, engaged and married. In each of these phases, we will look at what eternal purposes should be pursued in each stage, and how to pursue them.

SINGLENESS: DEVOTION

DATING: EVALUATION

ENGAGED: UNIFICATION

MARRIED: MISSION

Our desires for intimacy are powerful. This power can be constructive or destructive. Our satisfaction and our safety will be ensured if we can aim these powerful desires toward divine purposes.

Reviews

  • GREAT BOOK

    5
    By Anitarufina
    Super great book! Learned a lot, thankful Ben for writing this great book, it’s changed my life! Super easy to read, at the same time learned a few new words, loved how modern the aspect was throughout the book, very relatable and addressed the exact things many don’t want to talk to.
  • Thank you, Ben.

    5
    By Brittany kerr
    As graduating student at Texas A&M, I had the greatest gift of growing spiritually with Ben through my first few years of school as he lead Breakaway. As a young adult navigating singleness, dating, and a recent heartbreak this book has been incredible to read. This book has opened my heart up to Christ all over again, inviting Him in to lead me through such a tough season in life. This book has given me hope, so thank you so much Ben.
  • Awesome!

    5
    By NJ Cin
    Everyone should read this book. It is a must read for all young adults especially. Highly recommend reading it!!!